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Men Only Commit to This Woman

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Men Only Chase This Woman


Here’s the truth about relationships: men don’t chase women who chase them. If you like him more than he likes you, run. Men may enjoy the attention at first, but it’s not sustainable. They’ll get bored. They’ll feel smothered. They’ll lose interest. Why? Because it’s unnatural for a man to be the center of a woman’s world.


Men aren’t built to be excited about someone who hands herself over too easily. A man needs to feel like the relationship was his idea. That’s why men propose—not because they hold the power, but because a man needs to feel like he’s choosing the relationship, not being pushed into it. Without that sense of ownership, the relationship won’t work.


So how do you make it his idea? By focusing on yourself. By stepping back and putting your desires first. The key is to shift the power back to you. You don’t chase. You don’t beg. You become so obsessed with your own goals, growth, and happiness that he’s drawn to you naturally. It’s not about manipulating him; it’s about creating a life so vibrant and fulfilling that he wants to be part of it.


Here’s the secret: men crave the chase. They need to feel like they’re earning something valuable. When you hand yourself over—your time, your attention, your body—without requiring him to meet your standards, you rob him of the joy of pursuit. And when a man doesn’t have to work for something, he won’t value it the same way.


Men will keep women around for convenience, entertainment, or even intimacy, but that doesn’t mean they see those women as long-term partners. Just because he’s dating you or spending time with you doesn’t mean he’s planning to commit. If you’re giving more than you’re getting, you’re setting the tone—and that tone is casual.


Sure, casual situations can occasionally turn into relationships, but here’s the catch: those relationships happen when the woman isn’t expecting anything. She’s genuinely living her best life, unattached, and focused on her own happiness. That energy is magnetic. It’s not about waiting for him to commit—it’s about already being fulfilled.


Many women approach situationships hoping they’ll evolve into something serious. That’s not the energy that makes a man commit. Men chase women who prioritize themselves, who set standards, and who make them earn their place in their lives.


Remember this: men only chase women who give them a reason to chase. When you put yourself first, when you value yourself, when you set boundaries, you become the kind of woman he can’t stop thinking about.


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