There’s a lesson in every woman’s story, and Marilyn Monroe’s is no exception. She was beautiful, iconic, and deeply misunderstood. But beyond the glamor, she embodied the kind of femininity that many women fall into—the “Pick Me” trap. The woman who gives too much, seeks validation, and overextends herself for love. The kind of woman who attracts attention but struggles to secure the kind of devotion she truly desires.
Your Man Is Not Your Therapist
Men aren’t built to be emotional crutches, and relationships shouldn’t feel like therapy sessions. If you lean too heavily on a man to carry your emotional weight, he will start to see you as a burden rather than a prize. The most magnetic women are the ones who have already done the inner work to stabilize themselves emotionally. A healthy partnership isn’t about dumping your struggles on him—it’s about being a source of peace, not stress.
Stop Over-Giving and Expecting Better Treatment
Women tend to give too much too soon. They pour their energy into a man, hoping he will reciprocate, only to feel drained and unappreciated. The hard truth? Men don’t value what’s freely given without effort. If you constantly accommodate his needs while neglecting your own, he won’t see you as precious—he’ll see you as convenient. And convenience is not attractive.
Empower Your Man Without Mothering Him
Feminine energy isn’t about control, micromanaging, or fixing. It’s about encouragement, respect, and allowing him to show up for you in his own way. Support your man, but only if he pours into you. The moment you start mothering him—correcting his mistakes, handling his responsibilities, or babying him—you lose your allure. A woman who respects a man’s ability to lead while maintaining her own standards will always be the one he cherishes.
Feminine Women Don’t Chase, They Attract
Marilyn Monroe was adored by millions, yet she struggled to find deep, lasting love. Why? Because craving male validation is a repellent, not a magnet. The most captivating women are the ones who live for themselves. They prioritize their happiness, their goals, and their self-worth above any relationship.
Men don’t chase women who make them their world. They chase women who are already whole, already glowing, already so in love with their own lives that being with them feels like a privilege—not a responsibility.
Set the Standard, Then Walk Away
A high-value woman doesn’t sit around hoping a man will change. She sets her standards, communicates them clearly, and watches his actions. If he meets them, great. If he doesn’t, she walks—without begging, without chasing, without looking back.
The feminine energy level-up is about embodying confidence, self-worth, and emotional mastery. It’s about understanding that true power doesn’t come from how much a man desires you, but how much you honor yourself.
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