A lot of you are failing because you don’t show up consistently.
You’re making excuses, delaying the process, you haven’t fully decided, or you don’t believe you can have it.
If you are not seeing the results over long periods of time, then there is something missing. Don’t beat yourself up about it, but develop that self-awareness and figure it out, quick!
I have this old acquaintance that reached out to me tonight. She had ghosted almost a year ago after I invited her to an event I was hosting. Now she reached out to me asking for advice about influencing and creating content.
I had gotten the feeling that she was only interested in seeing what she could learn from me, she didn’t seem to care about me as a person. Now this is not a pity party and I’m sure she had the best intentions. I’m just giving you context on what I was feeling.
The old version of me with ZERO boundaries would’ve hopped right back into this cycle of people-pleasing and tried to be a “good girl” and help her out. The old me would’ve been grateful that she even reached out at all to reconnect, even if it was to ask me for something.
But the new, more savage feminine side of me knows that you cannot repeat the same patterns and expect different results. The best part is, I was completely unbothered 🤣 I noticed it, processed it, decided on my next move, and went about my day… No stress, no guilt, no shame.
Here’s the thing…
Why would I give someone advice on a topic I discuss with my clients and in my premium courses when
#1 she is not paying for my advice.
#2 she has not been a present or good friend to me.
#3 she hasn’t followed any business advice I’ve given her in the past.
It’s simply not going to happen.
Some may say this is rude or selfish. I say I am protecting my art; therefore, protecting my energy. 🦋
I bless her heart and know she is fully capable of solving her problems without my response. Babe if you’re reading this, may you get everything your heart desires.
Enough about me…
You get to have everything you desire in life! But you have to make it happen. You need to adopt the beliefs that work for you AND you need to put in the work. You can do this by yourself, but it’s always easier with a friend by your side 😊
If this resonates with you and you are ready to invest in yourself, I invite you to apply for the 6 Sessions bundle. We’ll be able to get to know each other, discuss any areas for improvement, and create a plan that works ❤️ can’t wait to chat!
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