Become the woman that get what she wants

How to Get Everything You Want as a Woman: The Mindset Shift You Need

The reason you’re not getting what you want in life has nothing to do with:

• The way you look

• How you were raised

• Your network or opportunities

It has everything to do with your mindset.

Your mindset is what’s keeping you stuck.

But the good news? You can change it.

In this post, I’m giving you three powerful mindset shifts that will help you stop struggling, stop forcing, and start receiving everything you desire.

Let’s get into it.

Mindset Shift #1: Start Acting Like You’re That Girl

You need to stop being humble.

Stop:

• Talking down on yourself

• Giving people the benefit of the doubt when they don’t deserve it

• Making excuses for why you don’t have what you want

From today forward, you are entitled to the best life possible.

You need to walk around like you are the most valuable woman in the world—because you are.

Think of your energy like a priceless object worth trillions of dollars.

Would you just let random people handle it carelessly? No.

That means:

• No more entertaining low-effort men.

• No more tolerating people who drain you.

• No more trying to prove your worth to those who don’t see it.

If someone isn’t showing up for you fully, your response should be:

“Ew. How dare they?”

You are not going to sit around wondering, “Why me? Why don’t I get what I want?”

You’re going to be disgusted by anything that doesn’t meet your standards.

And you’re going to remove yourself immediately.

This isn’t about being rude. It’s about valuing yourself so much that you don’t waste your energy on what isn’t worthy of you.

Mindset Shift #2: Raise Your Expectations

You get what you expect out of life.

So if you:

• Expect men to be liars and cheaters, you’ll attract that.

• Expect money to be hard to get, you’ll struggle financially.

• Expect that you’re “unlucky,” life will keep proving that to you.

But the moment you raise your expectations, your entire life shifts.

I used to expect the worst.

Now, I expect:

• To be loved and cherished.

• To be successful and abundant.

• To have relationships that feel effortless.

And guess what? That’s exactly what I got.

This didn’t happen after my life got better.

My life got better because I expected more first.

So if you’re tired of the same old patterns, stop accepting the bare minimum.

Expect better.

Demand better.

And refuse to entertain anything less.

This is why I created The Goddess Club—so you can surround yourself with women who are on the same journey of raising their standards, healing their past, and stepping into their divine power.

If you’re ready to upgrade your mindset and your life, join us at modelpatty.com.

Mindset Shift #3: Learn to Relax & Detach

This might be the hardest lesson, but it’s the most important:

Stop stressing about things that haven’t even happened yet.

Your mind is running in circles, thinking:

• What if I don’t get what I want?

• What if he’s not the one?

• What if my business doesn’t work out?

• What if I fail?

Here’s the truth: Your brain is not here to help you thrive.

Your brain is here to think thoughts.

If you keep focusing on your fears, your brain will keep giving you more reasons to be anxious.

You have to train yourself to relax.

You do this by trusting that what you want is already yours.

When I was launching my affirmation card deck, I was stressing over every little step—Amazon requirements, delays, customer service issues.

The more I focused on what was going wrong, the more problems kept popping up.

But when I finally let go and trusted that everything would work out, things started flowing again.

So take this in:

🚨 Your stress and fear are what’s blocking your desires.

When you can relax into the certainty that you’re going to get what you want, life starts working in your favor.

Final Thoughts: The Life You Want is Already Yours

The only thing standing between you and the life you want is your own self-doubt.

So today, you choose to:

✅ Be entitled to the best.

✅ Raise your expectations and stop settling.

✅ Relax and trust that what you want is on its way.

When you embody these three shifts, your entire life transforms.

Everything you want is already waiting for you.

Now, all you have to do is step into the energy of the woman who receives it.

If you’re ready to fully step into your power, join The Goddess Club at modelpatty.com and start creating the life you deserve.

See you inside. 💖

- Patty StayWell